“It is either self-judgement, or fear of outside judgement”

“It is either self-judgement, or fear of outside judgement” - Rick Rubin

Now that the workweek is ending, we close the door behind us at home and head into the weekend. It’s a good time for reflection:

🤔 Is something nagging at you?

🧐 Are there cases at work that still haunt you?

🤔 Are there conflicts, arguments, or disagreements lingering unspoken in the air?

If not, I wish you a great weekend to recharge. 🔆

If so: take a deep breath in, and out, and

🔸 Perhaps you avoided the discussion.

🔹 Or there was an undesirable outcome, and communication with the client didn’t go as you’d hoped.

🔸 Maybe emotions took over at the time..?

That’s possible.

You can’t act or communicate perfectly 100% of the time. No, not even me…

But take the time to consider if, and how, you’re going to address it.

(Hint: the fact that you’re taking it home might already be a sign…)

🔺 Don’t let it simmer.

🔺 Don’t let it grow larger and larger in your mind.

🔺 With each (over)analysis, you increase the risk of making assumptions.

Then:

“Colleague X took over that urgent patient without asking for my input…”

…quickly becomes:

“…because they probably think I’d get it wrong.”

Oops.

Have a nice weekend.

And here’s to a good start to the coming week!

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